I swear I'm starting to look forward to this time at work now, believe it or not I'm actually learning a lot about myself doing these questions.
23. What sucks in your life right now? Who has the power to change it?
I want to start off by saying that nothing in my life actually sucks right now, but I do have a few annoyances if you will.
First, my roommate is flying off to New Jersey/ New York this weekend to visit our friends, and well just get away from LA. What sucks about this is that I was supposed to be going, but I'm not. Why you may ask, well that's funny because the reason is my next point.
I have no money. Well correction, yesterday was pay day so I do in fact have money now, but I don't have the $600 it would cost to get out there. Had I had money sooner, this would have been no issue since a ticket was only about $300 when I first looked.
And now that I have money, I have no where to go, and nothing to do. Yes, I live in LA, but what can a 19yr old do in LA honestly? I hate 18+ clubs, and I don't even like the residents of LA really. Too many people from USC are gone, and home is just not an option (of course I'm referring to the people out there, not my actual house).
I have, however, come to a solution. I am convinced that once I get an ID all problems will be solved. So to answer the second question, I'm the one with the power to change that. But then again, I've always known that. I am in charge of me.
24. What is your life really about? What is your purpose?
I feel like for me to thoroughly answer this question it would require me to do some serious soul-searching, and then explain my response in a well written essay. Since I have neither the time nor the desire to do such a thing I am just going to leave you with the most basic answers.
My life is about the journey to finding myself, while enjoying all the beauty around me. All the while meeting new people and having fun along the way.
I am unsure of my purpose in life, other than to make the world a little more of a beautiful place while being here.
25. What fear could wake you in the middle of the night?
Seeing how I am a very deep sleeper, like sleep through earthquakes type of deep, I would say that only my biggest fears in the form of a dream could awake me. ANd unfortunately, not even those dreams can fully wake me sometimes. ( I have definitely waken up in the middle of the night, just to find that I can't move. That's probably my worst fear, not being able to escape. )
26. What joy could wake you in the middle of the night?
I honestly don't think there is any joy that could wake me in the middle of the night, well at least none that I know of. Not saying that it could never happen, I'm just saying I don't know of anything that could keep me from my sleep (we have a real exclusive relationship).
27. What are you grateful for?
My life.
28. What time of day do you feel most energetic? And what do you usually do in those moments?
My energy levels definitely have nothing to do with the time of day, but everything to do with the day of the week. Naturally Mondays I have little to no energy because I know that I have a long week ahead of me (and let's face it nothing ever happens on Mondays). But I'd say once Wednesday rolls around I'm pretty energetic until Sunday.
And what do I do in those moments, grab a few friends, probably a few friends, anddddd it's a party, it's a party, it's a partyyyy..
29. If you knew you only had one week to live, how and with whom would you spend it?
I'm traveling the world, and I'm bringing everyone that I have ever considered family with me.
30. Why do you think your most favorite film touches you so deeply?
I know exactly why, it's because I'm a sucker for love. (in case you're wondering my favorite is Titanic , and the Notebook isn't too far behind)
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Cause I didn't Mean to Hurt Him...
For anyone that knows me, they know I'm not the biggest Rihanna fan. I must admit, this song just might become my song for the summer. It's a little reminiscient of her Music Of the Sun Days, back when I really did enjoy her music. It was a nice little blend of reggae and pop, but then she decdied she wanted to "go bad", and look where it landed her.
But yeah anyways, I don't see why everyone was getting their panties all in a bunch because of this music video. Were they honestly causing all that controversy over a 2 second clip? Really? There have definitely been more controversial videos than this. And if we are being realistic here, no female is takeing this song literally. I doubt this is going to start women's revolt against men and they are going to shoot the men that did them wrong (maybe they will all start singing Man Down after the deed is done). Personally, when I hear the song I just hear the beat and the flow of the music. And truthfully, I have no idea what she's saying except for the chorus (which is enough for me).
Now that I posted this and gave my two cents maybe the song will get out of my head now and I can go on about my day without repeating "Rum Bum Bum Bum, Rum Bum Bum Bum, Rum Bum Bum Bum (MAN DOWN)" all damn day!
So far, no good.
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Back at it again
Thought I had given up on this, think again. I swear I'm working on finishing everything that I begin, so without further aideu...
19. As a kid what did you dream of becoming when you grew up?
Fuuny thing, when I was growing up I was the tallest girl in my class. Naturally, I wanted to be a model. Actually, I WAS a model in the Nordstrom fashion show way back when. But now that I'm only 5'4 I think it's safe to say that dream has been laid to rest.
20. What are you really good at?
To be perfectly honest, I'm really good at a lot of things. I like to think that I have the potential to be really good at whatever I enjoy and put effort into.
In the case that I'm supposed to be gettin specific with my answers I guess I can name wuite a few. I'm really good (well I used to be) at soccer, and I'm still pretty good at track. I am really good at listening to people, as well as paying attention to detail. And most importantly, I'm good at being me.
21. What can you do better?
I hate this question, because I am a big believer in improvement. No matter how good the performance, I always aim higher so the next performance is even better. With that being said, I believe that there is always something I can do better. Nothing too specific, just gradual changes. I like to think of them as tune-ups, as I get older the same behaviors aren't going to necessairly be appropriate anymore. They are going to become hindrances to my success, unless I do better.
I feel like I completely danced around that question just now, but oh well. I'm too lazy to re-read it and think of a better way to say that.
22. What worries you the most when you think about your future?
I think the one thing that worries me is not accomplishing my goals. I know that some fantasies will unfortunately remain just that, a fantasy. But there are some specific goals that I want to accomplish, and I won't be satisfied until I reach them. My fear is that these too, remain fantasies. I would hate to see my dreams crushed.
Another thing that I'm really worried about is marriage. It's a big commitment, and I am unsure of how to know when I've found "the one", or if I will ever find him.
19. As a kid what did you dream of becoming when you grew up?
Fuuny thing, when I was growing up I was the tallest girl in my class. Naturally, I wanted to be a model. Actually, I WAS a model in the Nordstrom fashion show way back when. But now that I'm only 5'4 I think it's safe to say that dream has been laid to rest.
20. What are you really good at?
To be perfectly honest, I'm really good at a lot of things. I like to think that I have the potential to be really good at whatever I enjoy and put effort into.
In the case that I'm supposed to be gettin specific with my answers I guess I can name wuite a few. I'm really good (well I used to be) at soccer, and I'm still pretty good at track. I am really good at listening to people, as well as paying attention to detail. And most importantly, I'm good at being me.
21. What can you do better?
I hate this question, because I am a big believer in improvement. No matter how good the performance, I always aim higher so the next performance is even better. With that being said, I believe that there is always something I can do better. Nothing too specific, just gradual changes. I like to think of them as tune-ups, as I get older the same behaviors aren't going to necessairly be appropriate anymore. They are going to become hindrances to my success, unless I do better.
I feel like I completely danced around that question just now, but oh well. I'm too lazy to re-read it and think of a better way to say that.
22. What worries you the most when you think about your future?
I think the one thing that worries me is not accomplishing my goals. I know that some fantasies will unfortunately remain just that, a fantasy. But there are some specific goals that I want to accomplish, and I won't be satisfied until I reach them. My fear is that these too, remain fantasies. I would hate to see my dreams crushed.
Another thing that I'm really worried about is marriage. It's a big commitment, and I am unsure of how to know when I've found "the one", or if I will ever find him.
Friday, June 3, 2011
Back at it again
I'm really proud of myself, I'm really sticking to my plan to do a few a day. Or maybe it's just because I'm bored out of my mind at work. Let's be honest, how many people typically come to the Ticket Office (aside from football season) during the academic year? The answer is not many, now divide that by 2 and that's how many customers I get a day. Seriously, in this 8 hour shift I have today, I will be lucky if I have 10 customers. So what do I do all day, anything that will make time go by faster. Since I've already done my daily gossip round-up, checked my email, and did my preliminary rounds on Facebook and Twitter, I suppose it's time for some questions.
So here we go again...
15. What recurring dream do you have? What do you think is the message your subconscious is sending you through that dream?
Ironically enough, I dont have any recurring dreams. My dreams are usually far too erratic to experience over and over again. I'm going to feel a little bit of a nerd for the next few sentences, but that's only because I did an informative speech on the meaning of the content of dreams. Dreams are actually just bits and pieces of information that you have stored in your brain (maybe something traumatizing happened to you during the day, or exciting, it could be a thought that has been in the back of your mind, etc.). When you enter REM sleep and begin dreaming, I think it's something with the synapses that create dream imagery. However, there is no hidden message in your dreams.
So, I guess if I were to answer this question correctly, I would suppose that the message is that I have way too much on my mind durinf the day. I need take some time to clear my head before I sleep, maybe my dreams won't be so wack.
16. What would you try now if you knew you wouldn't fail?
To be perfectly honest, I would try to get my own reality show. I have it all planned out really, and since I have nothing but time I guess I'll describe it.
The show would follow Sommerville residents from when I was on it during our senior year. It would document our search for jobs after college, applying to grad school, or maybe deciding to just take some time off. The premise sounds boring, but if you know us it will be anything but boring. Let's not forget that senior year we all turn 21, I can already see my birthday episode now.
We would all live in a house together, so maybe we would have to cut it down to a few main characters, and then a lot of recurring characters. Did I mention that our senior year our football team is bowl eligible again, so that means USC is about to be cracking, and you know we are going to be the ones that get it cracking. Let me just stop now, I could go on and on about this.
17. What was that thing you never tried because you were afraid of failure?
I would say the one thing that I never tried (again) was going out for my high school's soccer team. Soccer was one my passion, that was my one love. When I didn't make it the first year I was crushed, I knew I was better than the girls that made the team. All year I worked hard, they even started a summer soccer camp, but I didn't try out. I feel so stupid, because now I want nothing more than to play again. If only I had the balls to try out, man I swear.
18. What was your greatest disappointment in life?
I am really glad this question came up, because I really feel like I need to talk about this. I wrote about it a few days ago, but this is the first time I will explicitly address the situation.
I don't want to sound like I had a difficult childhood, it was far from it. However, I did have a colorful time during my adolescent years. I was doing things that aren't necessairly very becoming of a young woman, but I wasn't out of control either. It's not like I was forced to do anything, but I do now recognize that perhaps I was doing things for the wrong reason (as mine at the time was probably irrational). Either way, I don't share that dark side of me with many people.
Matter of fact, I don't share much with many people at all. But I was in love, and I was foolish. I thought that if I shared everything with him, there wouldn't be any secrets. There wouldn't be anything in the way of him loving me and vice versa. Boy, was I wrong. Turns out that not only did he not accept me for my flaws and all (yes I just quoted Beyonce), but he didn't even love me. He claims he did, but if he really loved me he wouldn't have intentionally hurt me.
Now, my greatest disappointment isn't my relationship with him. I'm glad I experienced that, it helped me grow, and it was truly a learning experience. My greatest disappointment is that I put so much energy into the relationship, and into him that I lost sight of myself. I let him determine my feelings toward myself , and eventually toward relationships. He made me hate the person I had become, when all along I was just being myself. And all of this was coming from someone who was so insecure with himself, that he was the bad guy all along. It made me sick to my stomach when I found out, but it only confirmed that I was, no excuse me, I am too good for him. And while we are still "friends", I can't help but to regret that he couldn't even appreciate the girl that was head over heels for him.
So here we go again...
15. What recurring dream do you have? What do you think is the message your subconscious is sending you through that dream?
Ironically enough, I dont have any recurring dreams. My dreams are usually far too erratic to experience over and over again. I'm going to feel a little bit of a nerd for the next few sentences, but that's only because I did an informative speech on the meaning of the content of dreams. Dreams are actually just bits and pieces of information that you have stored in your brain (maybe something traumatizing happened to you during the day, or exciting, it could be a thought that has been in the back of your mind, etc.). When you enter REM sleep and begin dreaming, I think it's something with the synapses that create dream imagery. However, there is no hidden message in your dreams.
So, I guess if I were to answer this question correctly, I would suppose that the message is that I have way too much on my mind durinf the day. I need take some time to clear my head before I sleep, maybe my dreams won't be so wack.
16. What would you try now if you knew you wouldn't fail?
To be perfectly honest, I would try to get my own reality show. I have it all planned out really, and since I have nothing but time I guess I'll describe it.
The show would follow Sommerville residents from when I was on it during our senior year. It would document our search for jobs after college, applying to grad school, or maybe deciding to just take some time off. The premise sounds boring, but if you know us it will be anything but boring. Let's not forget that senior year we all turn 21, I can already see my birthday episode now.
We would all live in a house together, so maybe we would have to cut it down to a few main characters, and then a lot of recurring characters. Did I mention that our senior year our football team is bowl eligible again, so that means USC is about to be cracking, and you know we are going to be the ones that get it cracking. Let me just stop now, I could go on and on about this.
17. What was that thing you never tried because you were afraid of failure?
I would say the one thing that I never tried (again) was going out for my high school's soccer team. Soccer was one my passion, that was my one love. When I didn't make it the first year I was crushed, I knew I was better than the girls that made the team. All year I worked hard, they even started a summer soccer camp, but I didn't try out. I feel so stupid, because now I want nothing more than to play again. If only I had the balls to try out, man I swear.
18. What was your greatest disappointment in life?
I am really glad this question came up, because I really feel like I need to talk about this. I wrote about it a few days ago, but this is the first time I will explicitly address the situation.
I don't want to sound like I had a difficult childhood, it was far from it. However, I did have a colorful time during my adolescent years. I was doing things that aren't necessairly very becoming of a young woman, but I wasn't out of control either. It's not like I was forced to do anything, but I do now recognize that perhaps I was doing things for the wrong reason (as mine at the time was probably irrational). Either way, I don't share that dark side of me with many people.
Matter of fact, I don't share much with many people at all. But I was in love, and I was foolish. I thought that if I shared everything with him, there wouldn't be any secrets. There wouldn't be anything in the way of him loving me and vice versa. Boy, was I wrong. Turns out that not only did he not accept me for my flaws and all (yes I just quoted Beyonce), but he didn't even love me. He claims he did, but if he really loved me he wouldn't have intentionally hurt me.
Now, my greatest disappointment isn't my relationship with him. I'm glad I experienced that, it helped me grow, and it was truly a learning experience. My greatest disappointment is that I put so much energy into the relationship, and into him that I lost sight of myself. I let him determine my feelings toward myself , and eventually toward relationships. He made me hate the person I had become, when all along I was just being myself. And all of this was coming from someone who was so insecure with himself, that he was the bad guy all along. It made me sick to my stomach when I found out, but it only confirmed that I was, no excuse me, I am too good for him. And while we are still "friends", I can't help but to regret that he couldn't even appreciate the girl that was head over heels for him.
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Here Go Some More Questions
12. What is the way you often sabotage yourself?
Well, I have mastered the art of convincing myself not to do things. "You don't NEED to go to work today, nothing ever happens there anyways"; "You don't NEED to go to this interview, you didn't really want to work here anyways" (sadly these two are recurring statements). I'm getting better at proceeding to then convince myself I am foolish and should take care my responsibilities, although I do still have some slip ups from time to time. Talk about a bad habit I need to break, I don't think after college this method will work.
13. Who would you like to please the most.
The obvious answer would be myself, but despite what many may think I'm not that selfish. I think the two people I want to please are my parents. I want them to be able to forget about the endless amount of time, money, and energy they put into me because they are so pleased with the way I turned out. I know that if I ever told them this they would think I'm stupid for even suggesting that they wouldn't be pleased with their only daughter, but that's my heart right there. I'll do anything for them, I want to make them more proud, even more pleased, and even happier than I already make them.
There is also someone else that I want to please, but that goes without saying. I don't really like to get into religion a lot (like all my relationships it is a very private matter to me), but at the end of the day I do want to please my Maker. For everything is possible through Him, and I want to lead a life that is pleasing to Him. It may not appear that way sometimes (maybe more often than not) but looks are deceiving, let's just leave it at that.
14. What do you think a stranger's first impression of you would be?
Depending on the setting it could be an array of things, so I decided since I have nothing better to do (Note: I am not a bum, I just currently have NO customers at the Ticket Office right now.) I will consider a few different scenarios
Walking around campus: No matter what kind of day I'm having (sweats day v. I actually woke up early and got dressed) most people would assume I am some beast on the track team because I just so happen to wear my special athlete backpack every day. I was told in high school that I look intimidating, so I guess some people probably assume that when they see me walking on campus. Especially when I'm with people I know, and even more so on a bad day (I'm not that girl that smiles when she walks, if I'm mad you can tell)
On the track: Most people just think I am a pretty girl that just so happens to run track. They're right in their assumption, occasionally I run across people that think I am about to kill my competition. and while some of the time they are correct, often times I fail to meet their standards, one day I will prove them right. I kind of like that about me though, I guess it has a lot to do with me being competitive. I got my game face on, I just need the performance to match it.
At a party/club/anytime I feel like stepping out: This is my favorite time, the things I hear are priceless. Girls usually are hating on me, assuming I'm some easy girl. In my opinion they're just mad because I'm wearing the mess out of some dress, or because I run things, or maybe both. Real girls usually think I'm about something, and 9 times out of 10 we can vibe with each other for the night. So I guess that would mean they think I'm cool people. As for the dudes, they are generally intrigued. Unfortunately, half of them assume I'm just another girl they can run game on, while the other half mistake me for the girl of their dreams. Either way, both assumptions are wrong. Believe me, it takes more than one glance to really know who I am.
I guess I should also know that 99% of the time I will in fact be a little (sometimes a lot) on. And for the people who only see me in party settings, they have me entirely figured out all wrong. There IS a side of me that doesn't involve drugs, sex, and alcohol.
Well, I have mastered the art of convincing myself not to do things. "You don't NEED to go to work today, nothing ever happens there anyways"; "You don't NEED to go to this interview, you didn't really want to work here anyways" (sadly these two are recurring statements). I'm getting better at proceeding to then convince myself I am foolish and should take care my responsibilities, although I do still have some slip ups from time to time. Talk about a bad habit I need to break, I don't think after college this method will work.
13. Who would you like to please the most.
The obvious answer would be myself, but despite what many may think I'm not that selfish. I think the two people I want to please are my parents. I want them to be able to forget about the endless amount of time, money, and energy they put into me because they are so pleased with the way I turned out. I know that if I ever told them this they would think I'm stupid for even suggesting that they wouldn't be pleased with their only daughter, but that's my heart right there. I'll do anything for them, I want to make them more proud, even more pleased, and even happier than I already make them.
There is also someone else that I want to please, but that goes without saying. I don't really like to get into religion a lot (like all my relationships it is a very private matter to me), but at the end of the day I do want to please my Maker. For everything is possible through Him, and I want to lead a life that is pleasing to Him. It may not appear that way sometimes (maybe more often than not) but looks are deceiving, let's just leave it at that.
14. What do you think a stranger's first impression of you would be?
Depending on the setting it could be an array of things, so I decided since I have nothing better to do (Note: I am not a bum, I just currently have NO customers at the Ticket Office right now.) I will consider a few different scenarios
Walking around campus: No matter what kind of day I'm having (sweats day v. I actually woke up early and got dressed) most people would assume I am some beast on the track team because I just so happen to wear my special athlete backpack every day. I was told in high school that I look intimidating, so I guess some people probably assume that when they see me walking on campus. Especially when I'm with people I know, and even more so on a bad day (I'm not that girl that smiles when she walks, if I'm mad you can tell)
On the track: Most people just think I am a pretty girl that just so happens to run track. They're right in their assumption, occasionally I run across people that think I am about to kill my competition. and while some of the time they are correct, often times I fail to meet their standards, one day I will prove them right. I kind of like that about me though, I guess it has a lot to do with me being competitive. I got my game face on, I just need the performance to match it.
At a party/club/anytime I feel like stepping out: This is my favorite time, the things I hear are priceless. Girls usually are hating on me, assuming I'm some easy girl. In my opinion they're just mad because I'm wearing the mess out of some dress, or because I run things, or maybe both. Real girls usually think I'm about something, and 9 times out of 10 we can vibe with each other for the night. So I guess that would mean they think I'm cool people. As for the dudes, they are generally intrigued. Unfortunately, half of them assume I'm just another girl they can run game on, while the other half mistake me for the girl of their dreams. Either way, both assumptions are wrong. Believe me, it takes more than one glance to really know who I am.
I guess I should also know that 99% of the time I will in fact be a little (sometimes a lot) on. And for the people who only see me in party settings, they have me entirely figured out all wrong. There IS a side of me that doesn't involve drugs, sex, and alcohol.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
More questions
Okay, so I am currently at work so I guess I will get back at this whole questionnaire thing.
7. If you could change your appearance, how would you decide to look.
Well I am pretty satisfied with the way I look now so really it would only be a matter of correcting a few minor flaws. Take for instance my skin, unlike the girls who would probably go as much as to change the color of their skin, I would simply want mine to be all one color. So if that means that I will be a shade darker so be it, I just want my feet to look like they belong to my body. Another thing I would change is my hair (no not the hair on my head, I LOVE my natural hair although I wouldn't mind a personal stylist to do my hair whenever it needs attention) I'm really referring to my body hair. I would love to go without picking up a razor, wax strip, or tweezer ever again. Also, my teeth, can't forget those. I would love for them to just stay as they are without having to wear those horrid retainers every night. And finally, would it be too much to ask if I could maybe grow a few inches, I hear 5'7 is a nice height :)
8. What color dominates your wardrobe? How do you feel when you wear that color? Why?
I have a pretty even amount of each color, so I'll just pretend this says what article of clothing. In that case, my answer is mini dress. Yes, I am a fan, a big fan. I mean Beyonce said "If you got it flaunt it", and well that's exactly what I do. I feel just as good as I look in them. I'm not trying to be conceited but it's the truth. It's something about putting on a dress that hugs you in all the right places, accentuating the natural curves of your body. Pair that with some bomb heels and you're already the baddest chick in the room.
9. What song do you sing only when you are alone? What memory does it bring back?
I find myself belting out Bill Withers "Lean On Me" from time to time. Why you may ask, well because it was the song of choice at Mass in High School. Also, after I graduated I had a brief moment where I wished I could sing and performed that song in front of my class for graduation after attending Diamond Ranch's graduation and seeing some girl perform a song I can't remember the name to. But no one will ever, ever hear me sing that song like I do when I am alone. Oh and by the way, I kill it every time ;)
10. Who do you secretly envy? Why?
I secretly envy the girl that can put her sexuality on display for the world to see. No, I don't mean sexual orientation, I mean sexuality (there's a difference). Matters like that personally make me uncomfortable, but shout out to the girls that feel comfortable enough to do so. I love me some me, but I would never be able to put myself on display. I commend those girls for their bravery and display of confidence... but that's about it.
11. What do you really want? But really...
What I want is to graduate from USC with honors, I want to find a well-paying job right out of college. However, if I don't find one immediately, I have a back-up plan. I want to spend the summer traveling the world. In the fall, I want to start graduate school at Georgetown or NYU (I won't be upset if USC accepts me either, I would want to do the program that is in London and Los Angeles). So somewhere along this journey I want to fall in love. But I don't want to fall in love with just anyone, I want to fall in love with someone that is a star in their own right (a real one works too). Of course he will be just as beautiful on the outside as he is on the inside. And I want him to love me, all of me. I want him to thank God every day for sending me to him. I want us to live a fabulous life, traveling the world during our whirlwind romance. I want to be so in love that I have my dream wedding. I want him to give me the most beautiful kids, and I want us to live happily ever after. And when I say that, I mean I want it to be complete with my very own castle, and an entire empire that we rule over as King and Queen.
Okay, so maybe that's not exactly how my life will go, but the question asked me what I want. All I am doing is being honest. But aside from all the material things, I just want to be able to look back at my life and be happy with what I've done with it. And God forbid that I am unhappy, I want to realize it early enough that I can make the proper adjustments so that I can be happy.
Of course I can go on and on about what I want for my family, my community, my country, my world, but in the words of Ghandi, I believe that you must "Be the chnage you wish to see in the world". In order for me to do that, I need to figure out what I want for myself to be that living change I wish to see.
7. If you could change your appearance, how would you decide to look.
Well I am pretty satisfied with the way I look now so really it would only be a matter of correcting a few minor flaws. Take for instance my skin, unlike the girls who would probably go as much as to change the color of their skin, I would simply want mine to be all one color. So if that means that I will be a shade darker so be it, I just want my feet to look like they belong to my body. Another thing I would change is my hair (no not the hair on my head, I LOVE my natural hair although I wouldn't mind a personal stylist to do my hair whenever it needs attention) I'm really referring to my body hair. I would love to go without picking up a razor, wax strip, or tweezer ever again. Also, my teeth, can't forget those. I would love for them to just stay as they are without having to wear those horrid retainers every night. And finally, would it be too much to ask if I could maybe grow a few inches, I hear 5'7 is a nice height :)
8. What color dominates your wardrobe? How do you feel when you wear that color? Why?
I have a pretty even amount of each color, so I'll just pretend this says what article of clothing. In that case, my answer is mini dress. Yes, I am a fan, a big fan. I mean Beyonce said "If you got it flaunt it", and well that's exactly what I do. I feel just as good as I look in them. I'm not trying to be conceited but it's the truth. It's something about putting on a dress that hugs you in all the right places, accentuating the natural curves of your body. Pair that with some bomb heels and you're already the baddest chick in the room.
9. What song do you sing only when you are alone? What memory does it bring back?
I find myself belting out Bill Withers "Lean On Me" from time to time. Why you may ask, well because it was the song of choice at Mass in High School. Also, after I graduated I had a brief moment where I wished I could sing and performed that song in front of my class for graduation after attending Diamond Ranch's graduation and seeing some girl perform a song I can't remember the name to. But no one will ever, ever hear me sing that song like I do when I am alone. Oh and by the way, I kill it every time ;)
10. Who do you secretly envy? Why?
I secretly envy the girl that can put her sexuality on display for the world to see. No, I don't mean sexual orientation, I mean sexuality (there's a difference). Matters like that personally make me uncomfortable, but shout out to the girls that feel comfortable enough to do so. I love me some me, but I would never be able to put myself on display. I commend those girls for their bravery and display of confidence... but that's about it.
11. What do you really want? But really...
What I want is to graduate from USC with honors, I want to find a well-paying job right out of college. However, if I don't find one immediately, I have a back-up plan. I want to spend the summer traveling the world. In the fall, I want to start graduate school at Georgetown or NYU (I won't be upset if USC accepts me either, I would want to do the program that is in London and Los Angeles). So somewhere along this journey I want to fall in love. But I don't want to fall in love with just anyone, I want to fall in love with someone that is a star in their own right (a real one works too). Of course he will be just as beautiful on the outside as he is on the inside. And I want him to love me, all of me. I want him to thank God every day for sending me to him. I want us to live a fabulous life, traveling the world during our whirlwind romance. I want to be so in love that I have my dream wedding. I want him to give me the most beautiful kids, and I want us to live happily ever after. And when I say that, I mean I want it to be complete with my very own castle, and an entire empire that we rule over as King and Queen.
Okay, so maybe that's not exactly how my life will go, but the question asked me what I want. All I am doing is being honest. But aside from all the material things, I just want to be able to look back at my life and be happy with what I've done with it. And God forbid that I am unhappy, I want to realize it early enough that I can make the proper adjustments so that I can be happy.
Of course I can go on and on about what I want for my family, my community, my country, my world, but in the words of Ghandi, I believe that you must "Be the chnage you wish to see in the world". In order for me to do that, I need to figure out what I want for myself to be that living change I wish to see.
Rolling In the Deep
Finally, I can see you crystal clear,
Go ahead and sell me out and a I'll lay your ship bare,
See how I'll leave with every piece of you,
Don't underestimate the things that I will do,
There's a fire starting in my heart,
Reaching a fever pitch and it's bring me out the dark,
The scars of your love remind me of us,
They keep me thinking that we almost had it all,
The scars of your love, they leave me breathless,
I can't help feeling,
Go ahead and sell me out and a I'll lay your ship bare,
See how I'll leave with every piece of you,
Don't underestimate the things that I will do,
There's a fire starting in my heart,
Reaching a fever pitch and it's bring me out the dark,
The scars of your love remind me of us,
They keep me thinking that we almost had it all,
The scars of your love, they leave me breathless,
I can't help feeling,
I am in no way saying that I am not guilty of this, I am a repeat offender. I find it very difficult to be satisfied with what is in front of me because I believe that I am always capable of achieving greater. I will never forget what my public speaking professor told me one day, "Alexis, you look at life like track. Everything you do, you strive to beat your very own personal best". Well, maybe it wasn't those exact words but that was the jist of it. Anyways, what I am saying is that maybe everything isn't meant to be bettered. If that were the case, how would you know when to stop? Happiness would be virtually unattainable. What is even worse is that relationships are often the most common place which we should be content with what we have. If you have someone that every part of you and treats you right, what more do you need? So what that he doesn't look like Lance Gross, how many people actually look like him that you encounter in every day life? Zero. The same goes for men, except their situation is a little more complex. I actually would love to know what goes on in the mind of a man that has a girlfriend that probably deserves better than him, and then has the nerve to mess around. You have a good thing going for you, now why would you go and mess that up for yourself. There is clearly an underlying issue that you need to address within yourself. If it sounds like I am a little more passionate about this, it's because I am. Personal reasons are my reasoning behind it.
Nevertheless, I think the issue that needs to be addressed is that we don't realize what we have until we don't (cliche yes, but it's the truth). In order to avoid this (and ever using this horrid statement again) we need to take some time out of our busy day and just take a look at everything that we have around us. Sure, you can look at the material possessions, but you need to look beyond that. Beyond the overpacked closets, Apple products, cell phones, etc. Start with your parent(s) or guardian (yes I am trying to consider everyone in this statement). I recently took a look at my own life and saw that my parents have literally devoted their life to their children. I am so grateful for them, I can't wait to get money of my own, I am going to spoil them! Second, you should maybe start to consider the opportunities made available to you because of those who provide for you or perhaps because of your own accomplishments. From there you will be amazed at what all you have, and if you're still ungrateful... well maybe you should continue striving for better (or maybe you should seek some professional help, just an personal opinion).
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